and if nothing can be done...

i guess it's been forever since i've updated. i haven't even been updating my weight. i'm such a slacker - but i promise i've just been SWAMPED. so here it goes:

weight loss
i'm back on track with weight watchers. it's been a really good week. i had been struggling with the whole "gotta eat everything in sight on the weeekends" syndrome, but i think i'm pulling past it.

i am definitely going to update my weight loss this weekend. hoping for a nice loss. i was up a few pounds from my lowest as of last week, so we'll see what monday morning holds for me.

i went shopping last night and bought the cutest stuff at LB...thank God for real women dollars. haha. anyways, i got to buy everything in a 18/20, so that's a plus. :) down from a 24 in a lot of things from earlier this winter.

i cleaned out my closet a few weeks ago and got rid of everything in my "fatter" size. i got rid of 7 (!!!) bags of clothes. how crazy is that? who has that many clothes? obviously i'm working on replenishing it though. hehe.

wedding - i'm getting married 4 weeks from today! yay! and my wedding dress still fits. :) that's definitely a positive. all my plans have come together and i'm so ready to go to HI.

work - it sucks. enough said. no details on the new job - guess they're still working on my security clearance. the good news is daniel's new job is workign out nicely. he comes home on the weekends, and it really isn't too bad on us. i think he's realizing there's not a lot to do in cumberland, and he gets a little bored, but he really enjoys the work. i'm so glad he likes his job. i think it's so much easier to get out of bed in the morning when you don't hate your job!

family - daniel and i have gotten hit with some tough news. i don't want to go into all of that, just please keep us in your thoughts. lots of big decisions are coming our way, and i'm hoping and praying that we find the right path for us and our future. it's scary when you don't know what the right thing to do is...but i'm sure we'll figure something out.

dmb - i'm in love with the band's new album. if you don't have it, go buy it. :) promise you will not be disappointed. i'm going to see the boys next weekend in burgettstown (near pittsburgh). and it's daniel's first show!

friends - while i'm not sure what the future is holding for me and the boy, i have spent a lot of time thinking about how hard it'll be on my friendships when i move to maryland. it's tough - the girls pulled me through a lot of tough times. and when i say pulled, i literally mean PULLED. some times with me kicking and screaming and fighting them every step of the way. am i a better person because of it? you betcha. in light of that, it makes me hesitant to move on...because i'm afraid it won't be the same. no more on this, because i don't wanna be crying at work. haha.

okay. is that everything? yeah? i think so. okay. i PROMISE to update my weight loss stats on monday morning. and i will try try try try to be better about updating. if work gives me time to breathe, it makes that task a little easier.

i hate being busy!

i feel like i have no time to blog.

i'm still on the "diet all week, eat bad on the weekends". it's making me maintain. i'm not happy with that, and need to get back on track...

i hope to update more soon. :(

i'm here...

i haven't completely disappeared. promises.

i'm doing well on weight watchers somedays, horrible on others. it's hit and miss. i did well monday and tuesday...then wednesday and thursday were bad, but today's been well.

i'm swamped at work, and still stressed about life in general.

but the boy's coming home this weekend, and i'm looking forward to that.

maybe i'll have something to update soon...we'll see.

highlights of the week:
keith urban concert
madi madison and bestie time
LOST ---> i'm obsessed.

yep, that's it. :)

fraudulent

i feel like such a fraud for posting this, but it is what it is.

week 15: -4, -30 total

i feel fraud-y because i ate bad this weekend. but yet that's what the scale said. i did have a good week, though...the weekend was just typical. i have got to get a handle on them. stupid evaroni's pizza. ("in all the world there is only one evaroni's", and i'm telling you people that are not near huntington, wv that you should be glad!)

in wedding news, daniel and i applied for our marriage license today. awwww. and i got fingerprinted for the new job. :) hoping everything goes well with all of that - especially since i spent over 3 hours on a form the other night. haha. i've also almost finished everything for the wedidng. the bridesmaids have their dresses picked out. decorations are all taken care of. we need to order tux rentals and buy my wedding band and we're good to go!

i'm boring. so that is all for today.

you might die trying

"if you give, you begin to live". sorry, dmb = stuck in my head. plus the lyrics kinda fit today.

i've kinda been sucking. wait, make that i've really been sucking. i can't stay on track. i do great during the week - for the most part - then the weekend comes and everything i know about ww and weightloss and healthy food choices go out the window. it's like, holy crap, it's the weekend! eat! you may never eat again!!! grrrr. i've been playing with the same 5 lbs or so for the past month. it's frustrating. why do i do this to myself, when i know how to work the program?

since i suck ww this week, i am late in reporting my weekly update. but here it is.

week 14: -1.6, -26 lbs total

in case you're counting, that's less than 2 lbs per week. thanks to the suckage.

STRESS. did i mention that i am under an insane amount of stress? i'm letting myself stress over everything. guess who gets the moodies, and crankies, and smart comments due to the stress? daniel. i feel bad for him! he has about 4 weeks home before starting the new job, with only 1.5 weeks remaining, and i've been not so nice the majority of the time. he's wonderful for putting up with me and for trying to talk to me about what's bothering me and trying to calm me down.

um, since we're in such a negative place this morning thus far, let's talk about something optimistic....i got a job offer!!! :) pending my security clearance (which stresses me for some unknown reason), i'll be kissing my current position goodbye and working in the DC area. AND my FF works there, too! :) it seems like everything's falling into place for me and daniel, which is great.

so why the bad mood again?

dash the hopes of those who hate me

okay, couple things...(in my best papa price voice)

1. TJ at TJ's Test Kitchen and Ugly Girl with a Beautiful Heart @ The Long Road Out of Hell awarded me the Super Blogger Award.

Here are the rules:

Pass it along to 5 fellow super bloggers, and comment on their blog to let them know how lucky they are today!When you present your Super Blogger awards, link back to the super blogger who gave it to you.Ya gotta love being a favorite of a fellow blogger and the hardest part is picking 5 people to pass this SUPER BLOGGER AWARD on to. This one has made it's rounds, so I tried to pick bloggers who hadn't been picked yet! Here are my picks for this SUPER BLOGGER AWARD:

• Mandi @ Family First: she's my bestie, and a new mom. she balances work, family, and her friends - and shares my love of DMB and weightwatchers. we've been through soooo much together, and laughs are never far behind us.
• Angela @ Angela's Grand Adventures: WW partner, fellow Richmond-ian (for now), and another Lane Bryant fan.
• Learning to Be Less: funny, motivator, and a Biggest Loser fan. Love her!
• Slackey @ One twenty-something's journey to get fit: has lost an amazing amount of weight and is getting ready to start WVU Law School.
• Lynn @ The Hungry Little Caterpillar: i follow her blog, even though i'm terrified of caterpillars! :) she's always out moving - wii fit, walking, etc...and she's a twitter gal!

2. it's my 50th post!!! :) in honor of this, i'd like to try my hand at a little giveaway. how do you cats feel about no pudge brownies?!? well, the winner of the giveaway will get all 3 flavors available in my area - chocolate, mint, and cappucino! you know the drill - leave a comment on this post and blog with a reference to this giveaway and i'll randomly choose someone as the winner on the 15th. good luck! :)

3. the title of this blog is from DMB's new song, beachball. love this song and loooooove that line!

slacker 2.0 - the blog version

i'm slacking - but only with blogging. i've been so on track this week. makes me feel good. let me preface that by saying that i gained 4 lbs last week...dang. the ice cream from cold stone creamery did not help, nor did the olive garden celebration with the g'rents. good news is the 4 lbs is already gone, and hopefully some more will be off before monday's weigh in.

week 13: +4, -24.4 (ugh - wrong direction much?)

anyways...bad weekend, but excellent start to this week.

randoms:

• i've been swamped at work.
• i had a phone interview this morning that looks sooooo promising. *fingers crossed* she told me if i hadn't been given an offer in 2 weeks, to call her back.
• we're having a mother's day cookout on sunday, and i am kinda excited about Hughes family time.
• big fight with my sister = the return of the boycat. kinda happy to have parker back at home with me and daniel.

that's all i've got. boring, huh?